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中学卒業

娘の通う太田中学校の卒業式でした。

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東日本大震災の後、入学式で「一日一日をしっかり生きる!」と
「新入生の誓い」を立てた日から、はや3年。

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中学の3年間は、からだもそうですが、大人へとこころが一番成長する、
だからこそ、ぼくの中ではもっともしんどかった3年間でしたが、
娘も小学校とは全く違う成長を見せてくれました。


大人への成長とは「自立」への過程。
覚悟はしていましたが、小学生とは異なり、
ハグすることがなくなるどころか、親の存在を煩わしく思う。

家での親に対して反発する態度や言葉は、
覚悟はしていたものの、つらいものです。
学校ではしっかりやっているし、家で吐き出すくらいよいけれど、
「それでいいよ」とは言えず、たしなめる。

これも、親と子の適切な距離感を獲得するための
必要な過程だったのだと思います。

ソフトボール部へ入部早々、4人の新入部員とはケンカの毎日。
経験者は娘だけで、6名の3年生は遠慮してあまり事細かに教えない。
2年生は寡黙なプーみお先輩一人だけ。
経験者の娘はレギュラー確定で、他の誰かが必ず試合に出るのに、
ルールもわからない。
そこで、娘が教えるも、気の強い子達は言い争いばかり。
 
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しかし、この時間が良かったのか、たった4人の部員は、
姉妹のような確かな絆で結ばれました。

総体が終わると部員は5名に。
試合どころか練習もままならないありさま。
新人戦は、他の部員を借りて出場するだけ。

2年生になった春は、新入生に入ってもらうために娘は奔走しました。
「入部してくれたらすぐ試合に出られます!」とのチラシを配布。
公なアピールのチャンス「部活紹介」では、持ち時間をしっかり練って、
それが功を奏し15人もの後輩が出来ました。

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他校でもよくある事態で、普通、どうすることも出来ない事ですが、
娘は、自分の力でこの状況を変えてみせました。

総体が終わって新チームになると娘がキャプテンに。
試合には娘たち2年生4人と未経験者の1年生。
経験不足が明らかな彼女たち。
総体後から、顧問の先生に練習試合を組んで欲しいと
嘆願するも「まだ早い」と。
みんなまだまだ経験が浅いので、ひとり2つ以上のポジションの練習を
娘がやらせていると、顧問は「そんなこと必要ない」と。

顧問の先生は専門的な知識がなく、指導にも積極的ではない中で、
自分なりに練習方法を考えてのことなのに、
頭ごなしに否定されて腹もたった事でしょう。

しかし、それ以降、娘は顧問にお伺いを立てることにし、
「こういう内容の練習をしようと思うのですが、どうでしょうか?」と。
結果、顧問の先生を協力的に巻き込むことが出来ました。

経験値が上がって、考えてプレーするようになると、
新人戦で初の県大会への進出、そしてあわやベスト4という活躍!

ダークホース、太田中の戦いぶりは話題となり、
その後は練習試合の申し込みが多く、練習試合には困らなくなりました。

強豪、高松東高と高松南高から、合同練習に呼んでいただき、
強化大会への招待など、強いチームとの試合経験も積みました。

しかし、以前の自分たちくらいのレベルのチームには、
どう転んでも負けないようになると、「過信」そして「慢心」。
こうなると、日々の練習がだらけてきて、弱いチームとの試合でも
試合運びが軽くなり、強いチームと試合するときの心の持ち方が、
異なりすぎて、重圧。

これは、厄介でした。

総体は、四国大会出場を目標にできるところまでは行きましたが、
やはり、専門的指導者のいる学校との日々の積み重ねの差異は、
簡単なものではありませんでした。

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ケンカばかりしていた同級生4人と、たくさんの後輩ができ、
チームの雰囲気づくりから、練習メニューやオーダーなど、
実質的な運営を自分で考えざるを得なかった環境は、
人の心は簡単なものでないことを学んだことと思います。

学校行事でも、リーダーシップを発揮しました。
春の運動会では、積極的に運営に関わり、
秋のコーラス大会では、指揮者としてクラスをまとめることに腐心。
真剣であるがゆえに、一喜一憂していました。

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生徒会は、学校でも優秀な子供たちの集まりであり、
ある種、尊敬の的です。
好奇心旺盛な娘も参加するのかと思っていましたが、
放課後、多くの時間を取られることになるので、
「わたしがいないと練習出来ないから」と、
実質的に練習を取り仕切っているキャプテンとしての立場を優先。
すごく、大人な判断だと思いました。

総体が終わると、後は受験です。
入学時「1番を獲る!」と言っていましたが、
優秀な子供の多い太田中では、簡単なことではありませんでした。

授業がわからないわけではありませんが、週2回の塾以外は、
ほとんど勉強もせず、日々勉強している子との差は開くばかり。

何事も、自分でやる気にならないと身につかないと考えているので、
ぼくたち親からは「勉強しなさい」とは言いませんでした。

3年生になった直後の模試が、これまでにない悪い出来。
奥さんが見かけた「お風呂で号泣してた」日からは、
週3回の塾の日以外も毎日、部活が終わってから塾へ自習へ。

総体が終わって、夏の塾の強化合宿以降は、目標へ向かって、
一心不乱に勉強に取り組むようになりました。

大晦日もテレビを観ないと宣言し、年が明けてからは、
携帯も電源を切ったまま。

しかし、同じように取り組んでいる子はたくさんいるので、
成績は確実に伸びてきましたが、
一足飛びというわけには行きませんでした。

受験本番を終え、晴れ晴れとした顔で、
「これで落ちてても、悔いはない」と。

この7ヵ月あまりの彼女の集中力と精神力は、
どんな結果であろうと、彼女のこれからの人生の
支えになるものだと感じました。

自らの様々な経験と成長を手に取るように感じた中学生活。
万感の思いで卒業式を迎えたことと思います。

義務教育はこれで終わりました。
しっかりと成長した娘を誇らしく思います。

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いろんな困難や問題があったけど、しっかりと乗り越えて、
確実に成長を感じられる有意義な3年間でしたね!
みお!卒業おめでとう!
ひとまず、しっかり遊んでください!(笑)

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